What I’ve Learned About Blogging So Far

Photo by Sara Dubler on Unsplash

Hi there!

I’m writing this latest post from paradise. This resort is so idyllic that the name escapes me at present, but I assure you, it’s fantastic.

See that chaise lounge all the way to the right with the red towel? That’s mine! 

My friend, Sara Dubler, took this photo while I went to get us another round of green apple sangrias. The turquoise water and the mountainy things in the background were so breathtaking that she uploaded the pic to Unsplash! It was kismet to find our vacay pic there when I was looking for the perfect photo for this post this morning!

Ah, blogging life….



Okay. So I might’ve stretched the details a bit. 

But I did find this picture on Unsplash. (My regrets to Sara Dubler, although I’m sure if we ever did meet in person we’d be fast friends.)

I just wanted to make blogging seem fun! 

Don’t get me wrong, there are parts of blogging I thoroughly enjoy. But there’s a lot more to blogging than just writing. 

I took recently took stock of how things have been going so far. Since I did this with my freelance writing business in my last post, I will focus today’s post on just my blogging efforts. 

Here we go: 


Blogging for blogging’s sake is easy; intentional blogging is harder.

For the record, blogging is not as easy as you might think. It’s not just writing what you want, when you want, how you want. Now, if you don’t care about numbers, then that’s just fine. Keep doing that.

But if you want more readers than your mom and your best friend (and I hate to tell you but your friend is likely too busy to read your blog), then you need to approach your blog with focused intent.

It’s sharing what you want to share in an honest, open and authentic way without sounding like you’re trying too hard.

It’s trying to perfect the no make-up make-up or the messy-hair-don’t-care look, but in the blogosphere.

Whole industries have been built on teaching people like us how to start and grow our blogs the right way so we can stop hitting ‘refresh’ every 30 seconds to see if anyone’s liked or commented on our posts. There’s definitely skill and expertise involved.

How do I know this?

Because I’ve consumed countless video tutorials, podcasts and blog posts on this very subject.

As a freelance writer, I know there’s a real need in the online space for well-written, consumable content. I’m learning as much as I can now so I can add as much value as I can later for my prospective clients.

A good blog post includes at least one really good, relevant visual aid or photo.

Whether we like it or not, aesthetics play an important part in how others view us in the online space.

We all know really good content keeps readers on our sites, but fantastic images help get them there in the first place. That’s where many of us get stuck.

We see the beautiful Pinterest-ready or blog-ready images, but don’t know quite how to turn them into what we want. I’ve used Canva before and have been able to crank out fairly decent images with basic text overlays, but I’d love to know how to do it really well. Pictures and graphics are a huge time suck for people like me who know what they want, but presently lack the skills to bring their visions to life.

Goal: Start learning the basics of graphic design with Canva. Design a business logo and learn to create beautiful, branded blog images, social media graphics and infographics.

Value: Increase blog engagement and readership experience with visually appealing pictures or graphics. Build brand awareness through consistency in brand color palette, logo and choice of fonts and images. Help stand out on more visual platforms like Facebook, Pinterest and Twitter. Add value to work for prospective clients.

Tools: For free design programs: Canva, PicMonkey (free versions); For free stock photos: Canva Free Stock photosUnsplash.comPexels.comBurst.shopify.com,

Links to more great resources:

21 Amazing Sites with Breathtaking Free Stock Photos by Chris Gimmer Source: Snappa Blog (3/28/18)

8 Data-driven Tips for Using Images With Blog Posts by Neil Patel
Source: HubSpot Blog (Originally published 10/31/14, updated 8/26/17)

Social media and online networking is critical to gaining traffic.

You can write a good blog post, but what’s the point if no one knows it exists?

I have to remind myself of this whenever I write something new. Bloggers write to be seen or heard by others, or we’d set our blogs to private or write in a journal instead. Since I’m using my blog to help build my online presence, I make it a point to share my posts on Twitter and, on occasion, in re-purposed form on Medium. While I don’t have a ton of followers either platform, I do gain a few more every time I post, and even more when others engage in what I’ve written. It’s easy to see how social media — when used effectively — can really drive traffic to your blog.

Right now, though, I’m still deep in the learning curve and have made a few rookie mistakes. 

Take it from me, know your settings on your various platforms. I’ve sent duplicate tweets about the same article because both my blog and Medium accounts were set to automatically tweet whenever I published new content. I’ve tweeted links to posts without any pictures or descriptions (which, unless I’m Tony Robbins or J.K. Rowling, is akin to launching your work into a gaping black hole). I’ve tweeted without hashtags which, again, may be fine if you already have your loyal following, but if you’re just starting out you need all the potential engagement you can get.

Beware, though. As you start ramping up your online efforts, you may run smack dab into a thing called social media FOMO. With Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, Medium, Tumblr, and multitudes of other lesser known platforms, it’s easy to spread yourself so thin in your attempt to be everywhere that your content quality suffers simply because you’ve run out of gas. Choose a platform or two that makes most sense for you and what you’re trying to accomplish, and don’t worry about the rest. 

Remember, a Jack-of-All-Trades is a master of none.

I’ve chosen to expend my energy on Twitter, Medium and Pinterest. All require time and intentional cultivation. I wrote a bit about my reasons for focusing on Pinterest in my last post so I won’t go into detail here, but it has to do with the long half-life of a pin (for marketing purposes), traffic generation, and the set-it-and-forget-it marketing strategy.

This means I’m currently not actively engaged on Facebook, Instagram or LinkedIn, all powerful social and networking platforms for freelance writers. I plan to learn more about networking and cultivating leads on LinkedIn. I considered starting a Facebook group for freelance writers or bloggers, but there were so many great ones already with engaged followings that I felt it more valuable to join a few of those existing groups than to create a new one.

I know Instagram’s incredibly popular right now, particularly in my niche (personal development & mental health & wellness). It’s just a matter of setting aside time to create a profile and to develop and nurture a following. 

Again, trying to be everywhere as a solopreneur is exhausting and impractical. At some point I will compare engagement across platforms and pare back where it makes most sense.

One final thought on social media: Instagram, Pinterest and Twitter are all extremely visual platforms. You have seconds to catch someone’s eye before they scroll past. This is another nod to why it would be wise to learn how to create those click-worthy images and graphics that stand out and make people want to engage with your content. 

Additional great resources:

Creative Revolt with Jorden Roper: 

Make a Living Writing with Carol Tice: 

The Writing Cooperative on Medium (Angely Mercado): https://writingcooperative.com/how-i-use-twitter-to-help-my-freelance-writing-3ab878cd0f30

Your website or blog is your business card.

We live in a digital era, and, in the freelance industry anyway, our primary contacts are no longer limited to those in our local community. As our networks become more global, our websites and blogs have become our digital business cards, conveying to the world who we are, what we do, and what value we have to contribute to the online marketplace.

The good news: we have the ability to make amazing connections with people and businesses all over the world.

The bad news: the space is incredibly saturated with people vying for the same attention as us. What this means is if we have, let’s say, only three to five seconds to make a decent impression on our blog, then we need to take care that our content really hooks and grabs, and that our site is as visually pleasing as possible.

In addition to publishing new content and tweaking the old, I’ve been trying to create a more inviting reader experience by playing around with my WordPress theme. I’ve been experimenting with the side bar widgets, the site pages on the menu bar, and the font types and sizes of both the headings and paragraphs (for readability).

By adding the ‘Recent Posts’ widget to the sidebar, I hope to boost my site’s stickiness factor by showing readers there’s more good stuff to read other than the post that originally brought them there.

Since the ‘Recent Posts’ only lists the blog titles, I know I need to make them as interesting and catchy as possible to entice readers to click and read. If they read a couple posts, maybe they’ll ‘like’ the posts or even choose to follow my blog.

Increased engagement = valuable social proof to prospective clients that my writing could boost their audience engagement as well, which may convert to more subscribers for them.

Blogging as a powerful promotional tool for your business.

So where does that leave us?

Blogging is more of a business tool than I ever imagined. Initially, I thought blogging would be a way to build community with other freelance writers and to showcase my writing skills, but the more I learn the more I understand the power of a forward-thinking, value-laden blog.

While I still see value in sharing parts of my personal journey as I continue to build my freelance writing business — much of which touches upon the mindset work it takes to make it as a freelance writer — I want to take care that each post includes a valuable lesson or takeaway that will help others. Otherwise my posts are just confessional and I’m only serving myself. While writing to work through struggles is an extremely valuable practice, those types of posts may be best reserved for private journaling or morning pages.

Some day, I’ll be writing from a tropical paradise, sipping green apple sangrias, possibly with a friend named Sara Dubler. 

But for now, I’ll keep plugging away and enjoy learning every new thing I can about this surreal world of blogging.



For some, the gap between knowing what they need to do to accomplish their goals and actually doing it is everything. As a virtual accountability partner, I help people struggling with procrastination and overwhelm take the critical steps they need to break the cycle of inaction and move forward with their lives.


  1. Harsh Y
    August 26, 2019

    The introduction was my favorite part. I believed every word you wrote and then wished to rest my butt to your adjacent chaise lounge.*blogging goals*

    But, then I read further and BAM! ..haha…

    You are right that blogging is a lot more than just writing. Indeed, it takes a lot of efforts to stand out when there’s are tons of blogs creating kinda same content. But, am sure you will do great. Your writing is powerful and influencing.

    Wish you luck 🙂
    P.S Landed here via Medium.

    1. Kari Watterson
      August 26, 2019

      Hello! Yes, blogging goals indeed! Some day, right?

      Thank you so much for hopping on over to my blog from Medium, and for your kind words. Although the blogosphere is full of people, blogging can feel like a lonely venture. Comments like yours are so uplifting.

      I recently read one of your posts on Medium as well and was blown away. I’m looking forward to reading more of your work.

      Thank you again, and best of luck to you, too! Have a great day.


  2. carol hannah
    September 5, 2019

    Thank you for reading my blog https://mentalhealthfromtheotherside.com and for your kind comments Kari. Not sure whether I’m allowed to leave this link but please edit if necessary.

    I’m new to blogging and I agree that the place is saturated with people vying for attention. I often wonder who am I writing for or whether anyone actually wants to know my story?

    All this ‘stuff’ in my head and written in diaries for fifteen years. I just feel I need to get it out there? Now I’ve started, I just can’t stop writing.

    1. Kari Watterson
      September 5, 2019

      Hi Carol, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. I think it’s good to know who you’re writing for if you’re trying to grow a specific type of audience for a specific purpose. For example, some start blogs to generate income or to establish themselves as authorities or influencers in their niche. In those cases, it’s important to understand your target audience and tailor your blog content to meet their needs. If you’re writing just because you love to write and have stories you want to share (and you’re not interested in monetizing your blog), then those “rules” are nonissues. I’ve really enjoyed your blog posts. You write so descriptively and from such a unique perspective. I’m looking forward to reading more. Thank you, Carol!

    2. mmorran1
      September 23, 2019

      I hear you on that, I’m new to blogging too and it sometimes seems I’m yelling into the void 😛 Just know your story has power whether it reaches one person or one hundred people. It could even just be transformative for you to write it all down, I know it was for me.

      That’s the beauty of blogging, no matter how far it goes it makes a difference to somebody. Keep telling your story, keep sharing, keep making the world a better place just by existing <3

      1. Kari Watterson
        September 23, 2019

        I couldn’t have said it better myself. I once heard someone say everyone has a tribe who’s looking for them. Keep telling your stories, stay true to your voice, don’t give up. Your people will find you!

  3. mmorran1
    September 23, 2019

    Kari, what a wonderful piece! As a new blogger myself, your insights are so valuable to me and really give me a road to run on – thank you so much for sharing. Someday soon you’ll be in that beach chair, I just know it 😀

    1. Kari Watterson
      September 23, 2019

      My goodness, thank you so much for your kind words. I’m so glad you found the post useful. A lot of what I’m working on now is testing what works and what doesn’t, and tweaking from there. It’s a work in progress! Best of luck to you on your new blog. That’s exciting! And yes! One day we’ll both be in our own beach chairs, or wherever it is you wish to be, looking back at these times and thanking ourselves for not giving up. Good luck!!! 🙂

  4. ปั้มไลค์
    October 15, 2019

    Like!! I blog frequently and I really thank you for your content. The article has truly peaked my interest.

  5. oprol evorter
    November 12, 2019

    Hello would you mind stating which blog platform you’re using? I’m planning to start my own blog in the near future but I’m having a hard time deciding between BlogEngine/Wordpress/B2evolution and Drupal. The reason I ask is because your design seems different then most blogs and I’m looking for something unique. P.S My apologies for getting off-topic but I had to ask!


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